Why you should homeschool your daughters

These days, schools don't teach girls what they need to know to lead a successful life. Whereas previously the assumption was that girls would get married and raise a couple of children, the new track for women is: girls go to school, then on to college/university, get a degree, a job, spend several years in the workforce, and then and only then can they get married (if they can find a man) and have children (if they aren't too old to bear children by then).

The entire education system is built around this assumption. Most parents aren't really aware of what their children are being taught at school. Today I was talking to a single mother with 2 children, and the older of them, a daughter who is not yet 16 was given a book at school to read, which contained some rather adult themes. On the back cover I read something to the effect of "a single man (the protagonist) finds the best places to score with single women". The mum also told me that the book also contained some suicide, etc. This is not appropriate reading material for a 15 year old. Also, if the mum had not offered to read the book to help with her daughter's book report, she would never have known what her daughter was reading.

The track that today's education system pushes kids onto assumes that marriage and children will only enter a woman's radar when she's in her 30s. Until then, she's meant to experiment with various types of relationships and freely engage in contracepted sex while finding fulfillment at the office. Apparently, when she is experienced enough, she will be good marriage material.

All of this is a recipe for life-long unhappiness, as countless social-science studies have repeatedly shown. "Experienced" women are cynical and jaded women. Cynicism towards the opposite sex is a relationship killer. Studies have shown that pre-marital sex is a significant risk factor for divorce. So is cohabitation. So why not just be celibate until her 30s? Because lack of sex makes women unhappy.

It turns out that this single (and unhappy) lifestyle is enabled by independence. That is, a woman cannot have such a lifestyle if she is dependent. She is more likely to be happy if she transitions from a state of dependence on her father to dependence on her husband. Of course, this assumes that the man she marries is good marriage material.

So how can you ensure that your daughter does not become overly independent? For starters, university shouldn't even be on her radar until her children are fully grown. Unfortunately, schools are in the business of brainwashing children into thinking that career is the only option. Schools also teach young girls a whole heap of things that will not be of any use to them in a marriage. Kids in school also face tremendous pressure to have sex, both from their peers as well as from the curriculum itself.

She will be better off learning skills that will be of use to her in a marriage. The only way to ensure the marriageability of your daughters is to homeschool them. This way, you also have more control of their upbringing.

Send your sons to boys schools

After doing a lot of reading up on social issues, I've learned a great deal about the state of schools in western countries. Schools have been very feminized to make it more conducive to learning for girls. Unfortunately what's also become apparent is that boys are very different from girls. Boys learn differently from girls. Boys and girls also learn at different speeds. Favouring one will disfavour the other. You might as well try to train cats and dogs together. The feminization of schools has resulted in entire generations of males being let down by the school system.

In the US, the feminization of schools has extended to physical activity and not just learning. Many schools abolished recess and cut down on physical activity. This has resulted in large numbers of boys diagnosed with ADHD and similar disorders because they have no way to burn off their energy.

Many extreme feminists are more than happy with this situation they created. But unless they're lesbians, they will soon find that - in Warren Farrell's words - "when one sex wins, both sexes lose."

As I've pointed out in a previous post, men need a proper education in order to fulfill their reproductive role. That is, to succeed in their ultimate goal of reproduction. But women also need men who have the capacity to provide for a family. A woman can't succeed in her ultimate goal of reproduction without a man's help. What the current school system is doing is creating generations of men who will grow up to be useless to women. This is already a problem and women are taking notice.

What should you do about your sons? Because boys learn differently from girls, they need to be taught separately from girls. In boys schools, they are also more likely to be exposed to male teachers, and that's a good thing because boys need plenty of male role models. Boys schools are also better equipped for sports and other physical activity. They are also able to study without being distracted by the girls.